House Frey, root and branch — 42 names across 5 generations, seated at The Twins in The Riverlands. Each band below is a single generation, eldest first; the mono line beneath a name gives its parents, so the descent reads down the page. Dates follow the maesters, and where the songs outrun the records the chronicle hedges the legend as legend.
Seat
The Twins
Region
The Riverlands
Words
“We Stand Together”
Generation 1
The builders of the Crossing (some six centuries before the present reckoning)
The first Lord Frey
roughly six hundred years before the War of the Five Kings, the exact year unrecorded
Styled Lord of the Crossing
Raised a single wooden tower over the narrowest crossing of the Green Fork and began charging every cart, pilgrim, and army that wished to use it. Six centuries and two stone towers later, the toll has never once gone uncollected — the single most reliable fact in this family's entire history.
Inherited the Twins young, when his father and grandfather obligingly died within a year of each other, and spent the ninety years since proving he intended to outlive everyone else too. He arrived at the Trident after the fighting was done and wore the jest ever after; he arrived at Riverrun for his granddaughter's wedding on time, with crossbows behind the pie course, and the Red Wedding is the only appointment this chronicle can confirm he was ever punctual for. Eight wives, some seven-and-twenty acknowledged children by his own count on a good day, and a toll bridge he has never once let cross for free.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Generation 3
The eight wives
Perra Royce
Styled Lady Frey (first)
Walder's first wife, of the Runestone Royces, and mother of Stevron, Emmon, Aenys, and Perriane — the eldest and, by most later comparisons, the least troublesome quarter of his brood.
Cyrenna Swann
Styled Lady Frey (second)
Second wife, of House Swann of the stormlands, and mother to Jared and a son who took the septon's robes rather than a Frey wife of his own — one of very few of Walder's sons to opt out of the family trade.
Amarei Crakehall
Styled Lady Frey (third)
Third wife, and mother of seven, including Hosteen, Merrett, Geremy, Raymund, and Symond — a litter large enough that this maester suspects Walder chose his wives thereafter chiefly for stamina.
Alyssa Blackwood
Styled Lady Frey (fourth)
Fourth wife, of the riverlands' own Blackwoods, and mother of Lothar, Jammos, Whalen, and two daughters — proof that even a Bracken's bitterest rivals were not above marrying into the Twins when the toll made it worthwhile.
Sarya Whent
Styled Lady Frey (fifth)
Fifth wife, of the fading House Whent of Harrenhal, and the one marriage in eight that gave Walder no living child at all — a fact he is not recorded to have let her forget while she lived.
Bethany Rosby
Styled Lady Frey (sixth)
Sixth wife, and mother of Perwyn, Benfrey, Willamen, Olyvar, and Roslin — five children who would go on to sit rather close to the center of the Twins' most infamous wedding, whether by luck, blood, or their father's design.
Annara Farring
Styled Lady Frey (seventh)
Seventh wife, mother of six, including Elmar — betrothed at eight years old to Arya Stark, and unbetrothed again the moment the Twins broke faith with the rest of her family — and Shirei, the youngest of Walder's acknowledged daughters.
Joyeuse Erenford
Styled Lady Frey (eighth, and present)
Eighth and, as of this writing, current Lady Frey — younger than several of her own stepgrandchildren, which the smallfolk of the riverlands have not been shy about remarking on.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Generation 4
Walder's trueborn — the core of the brood
Stevron Frey
d. 299 AC
Styled heir to the Twins
Parents Walder Frey · Perra Royce
Eldest and, by every account this Citadel has gathered, the one Frey the Starks might have dealt with gladly — amiable where his father was not, and reasonable where the rest of the family rarely troubled to be. Wounded lightly at Oxcross fighting for Robb Stark's cause, he was found dead in his tent three days later of a wound no one thought serious, which this maester records without further comment and considerable suspicion.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Emmon Frey
Wed Genna Lannister
Parents Walder Frey · Perra Royce
Second son, wed to a Lannister of Casterly Rock — a match that gave the Twins a standing invitation to Lannister councils and gave Emmon, by his own wife's frequent account, very little say in his own household.
Aenys Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Perra Royce
Third son of the first marriage, sent about his father's business more than once and remembered chiefly for doing it without complaint — a rarer trait in this family than competence.
Perriane Frey
Wed Ser Leslyn Haigh
Parents Walder Frey · Perra Royce
Perra Royce's only daughter, married off to a household knight — a modest match by Frey standards, which is to say her father still expected something for it.
Jared Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Cyrenna Swann
Cyrenna Swann's son, one of the more forgettable branches of a family that produces forgettable branches the way other houses produce wheat.
Hosteen Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Amarei Crakehall
The closest thing to a soldier this brood produced in bulk — a big, blunt knight the Twins sent to the fighting rather than the negotiating, and one of the few Freys the Lannisters seem to have trusted with an actual sword in hand.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Merrett Frey
Wed Mariya Darry
Parents Walder Frey · Amarei Crakehall
Amarei's son, remembered less for anything he did himself than for two of the children he begot: a son sent to Winterfell as a ward, and a daughter who married north for reasons that had nothing to do with affection.
Geremy Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Amarei Crakehall
Another of Amarei's sons, of whom the surviving record preserves a name and declines the rest — the fate, this maester notes wearily, of roughly half this family.
Raymund Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Amarei Crakehall
Amarei's son; the ledgers name him among the living and the histories otherwise ignore him, which by Frey standards counts as a quiet life well spent.
Symond Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Amarei Crakehall
Said to have a head for coin sharper than most of his brothers' heads for anything at all — the Twins' toll being, after all, the one Frey enterprise every single one of them can agree is worth minding.
Lothar FreyLame Lothar
d. 299 AC
Styled steward of the Twins
Parents Walder Frey · Alyssa Blackwood
Crippled from birth and kept from the field for it, he ran the Twins' household instead — which put him, sharp-tongued and sharper-minded, at the very center of the wedding his father hosted for Edmure Tully and Roslin. He did not survive to enjoy whatever reward the arrangement was meant to pay him: the riverlands' vengeance found the Twins before the year was out.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Jammos Frey
Wed Sallei Paege
Parents Walder Frey · Alyssa Blackwood
Alyssa Blackwood's son, wed to a Paege of the westerlands, and father to one of the two cousins the smallfolk of Winterfell would come to know, confusingly, as a Walder.
Whalen Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Alyssa Blackwood
Another Blackwood son of whom this Citadel's file holds a name, a parentage, and nothing whatsoever besides.
Danwell Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Amarei Crakehall
One more of Amarei's sons, distinguished from his brothers chiefly by the record's equal indifference to all of them.
Perwyn Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Bethany Rosby
Bethany Rosby's eldest, sent away from the Twins before the wedding feast turned to slaughter — being, his father judged, too friendly with the Starks to be trusted near the crossbows. He lived to stand siege at Riverrun instead, on the other side of the family's treachery from most of his brothers.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Benfrey Frey
d. 299 AC
Parents Walder Frey · Bethany Rosby
Bethany's son, present when the doors were barred at the Red Wedding and dead of a wound taken in it not long after — one of the very few Freys the slaughter cost anything at all.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Willamen Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Bethany Rosby
Bethany's son, sent to the Citadel rather than a battlefield or a bridal bed — a rarer choice in this family than either.
Olyvar Frey
Styled squire to Robb Stark
Parents Walder Frey · Bethany Rosby
Bethany's youngest son, squired loyally to Robb Stark through the Young Wolf's whole campaign, and — like his brother Perwyn — sent from the Twins before his father's hospitality turned to butchery. Whether loyalty or the accident of a guest list saved him, the record does not presume to judge.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Roslin Frey
Styled Lady Tully
Wed Edmure Tully
Parents Walder Frey · Bethany Rosby
The bride the whole grim occasion was ostensibly for, wed to Lord Edmure Tully in her father's hall with tears the household read as maiden nerves and Edmure himself would later read, once captive, as foreknowledge. What Roslin knew and when she knew it remains one of the Twins' better-kept secrets — kept, in this instance, by a woman rather than a lord.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Elmar Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Annara Farring
Betrothed at eight years old to Arya Stark as the price of his family's crossing, and unbetrothed again the moment his father judged the alliance no longer worth honoring — a child's engagement, broken by an old man's arithmetic.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Shirei Frey
Parents Walder Frey · Annara Farring
Annara's daughter and, by most countings, the youngest of Walder's acknowledged children still a child herself — a reminder that this lord fathered new sons and daughters well into an age most men spend counting their grandchildren instead.
Tyta FreyTyta the Tenth
Parents Walder Frey · Alyssa Blackwood
Called Tenth for want of a better distinguishing mark among so many daughters — the family having apparently exhausted its patience for descriptive bynames well before it exhausted its patience for children.
Generation 5
The grandsons at the wedding, and after
Ryman Frey
d. 300 AC
Styled heir to the Twins
Parents Stevron Frey
Stevron's son, promoted from grandson to heir apparent the moment his father died at Oxcross, and by the general judgment of both his own family and everyone else's a considerably poorer bargain than the man he replaced. He rode out from the Twins on his grandfather's business and was found hanged near Fairmarket, by outlaws or by grudge, unmourned even at home.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Edwyn Frey
Styled heir to the Twins
Parents Ryman Frey
Ryman's son, next in the line of succession once his father stopped being useful to it, and a man his own cousin's ambitions have already begun circling.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Walder FreyBlack Walder
Parents Ryman Frey
Ryman's younger son, trueborn despite the name he shares with a half-brother by-blow of his own grandfather — an ambiguity the Twins have never bothered to resolve, since both Walders answer to it and both, this Citadel is reliably told, would cut a rival's throat for the Crossing without much debate.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Cleos Frey
d. 300 AC
Wed Jeyne Darry
Parents Emmon Frey
Genna Lannister's eldest by Emmon, sent to escort Jaime Lannister south under Catelyn Stark's own parole and killed on the road for it — cut down by outlaws before he ever finished being useful to either family that claimed him.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Tion Frey
d. 300 AC
Parents Emmon Frey
Another of Genna's sons, taken hostage with his cousins and executed on Vargo Hoat's order at Harrenhal — a death this chronicle files, as it must file so much of that castle's recent history, under savagery masquerading as strategy.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Walder FreyBig Walder
Parents Jammos Frey
Jammos's son, sent as a ward to Winterfell and, by the peculiar arithmetic of this family's naming habits, the taller of two same-named cousins despite being fifty-two days the younger. He has since gone north again, into service the Boltons now claim rather than the Starks.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Walder FreyLittle Walder
d. 300 AC
Parents Merrett Frey
Merrett's son and Big Walder's cousin, ward at Winterfell alongside him and, later, in Bolton service at the same castle — where he died of a lamprey pie whose poisoner this Citadel does not have the confidence to name.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Walda FreyFat Walda
Styled Lady Bolton
Wed Roose Bolton
Parents Merrett Frey
Merrett's daughter, chosen for Lord Roose Bolton's third wife over her thinner cousins on the frank promise that a well-fed woman breeds easily — a courtship this maester records exactly as bluntly as it was apparently conducted.
These partings name deaths, endings, and roads not yet ridden in the books. Unveil them only if both roads are known to you — or if you do not fear to know.
Dashed cards mark bastards and baseborn lines. Names shaded behind the veil belong to the present tale; unveil them only if you do not fear to know.
Cadet branches and offshoots
Younger sons and daughters whose blood struck out on its own — some founding houses of their own name, some withered to a line in the annals, some disputed to this day.
Walder RiversBastard Walder
Eldest of Lord Walder's acknowledged natural children and, despite the accident of birth, one of the more capable swords the Twins can field — a fact the household is not permitted to forget carries no claim on the seat regardless.
The lesser Rivers of the Twins
Martyn, Ryger, Ronel, Jeyne, and Mellara Rivers among them — natural children the Twins acknowledge without troubling to elevate, a bastard household nearly large enough to be a second, unofficial House Frey.
What the maesters dispute
Where the records quarrel, contradict, or fall silent, this chronicle sets the arguments down rather than settling for you what the texts leave open.
How many children Lord Walder Frey has actually fathered: the man himself claims some seven-and-twenty trueborn and an uncounted scatter of Rivers besides, the maesters who have tried to tally the household roll have stopped agreeing on the number past thirty, and this chronicle — having named the core forty or so the histories bother to individually record — declines to referee the rest.
Whether House Frey's words, 'We Stand Together,' were ever actually spoken within the family or only assigned to it afterward: no surviving letter or record from the Twins itself uses the phrase, and given the family's own history at the Red Wedding, more than one maester has noted the irony would be considerable either way.
Which of the two Walders — Black Walder Frey, trueborn grandson of Stevron, or Walder Rivers, the Bastard, eldest of Lord Walder's natural sons — answers more readily to the name at the Twins: both do, regularly, and to the crossing's considerable daily confusion.
Whether Roslin Frey knew of her father's plans for her own wedding feast in advance: her husband Edmure Tully believes she did and forgave her nothing for it; this chronicle notes only that no one has produced her own account of the matter, and is unlikely to.
How many members of House Frey are in the books?
This tree gathers the current documented Frey corpus from the novels and their histories — kings and lords, daughters and bastards, and cadet offshoots. The maesters count only what the texts preserve; where a name survives without its deeds, the chronicle says as much rather than inventing the rest.
How do I read this House Frey family tree?
Each band down the page is one generation, eldest first. Beneath a name, the mono line names that person's parents, so descent reads from the top down. Dashed cards mark bastards and baseborn lines; cards behind the veil hold fates from the present tale, revealed only if you choose to unveil them.
Where does House Frey come from and where do they sit?
House Frey holds The Twins. The tree opens with the earliest forebears the records name — legendary where the singers outrun the maesters, firmer once true dates begin — and this chronicle marks the myths as myths, never dressing a song up as a certainty.
Which House Frey tales are still disputed?
A good many. Contested parentage, missing generations, bynames left unexplained, and legends the singers embroider all appear under 'What the maesters dispute' at the foot of this page, where the arguments are set down without pretending to close what the books leave open.